Have you ever wished that you had a play book or manual for being a stepparent? I know I have! I am a Bonus Momma to two incredible Bonus Kids that I absolutely love and adore. We have an amazing relationship, but it was not always easy, and it took a lot of time to build. Early on I wished that they came with a book, a step-by-step guide if you will. A Rule Book of what “to do” and what “not to do” in a blended family. What I really wanted to know was what is expected from us “Evil Wicked Step Moms”.